How do i tell my best friend i was raped?

this happened back in February, and i wanna tell someone, like my best friend but I'm scared to death to tell her.

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There isn't anything to be scared about. Your friend will be glad you trusted her enough to tell her about it, and she won't change her thought of you.

You had a traumatic experience, but keeping it to yourself isn't necessary or helpful. You can do it! There isn't anything to worry about. Just tell your friend that you want to tell her about something, but you are finding it hard. Just get it over with, and you will feel loads superior.

A problem shared is a problem halved.

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First of all, I’m so sorry about that, it is awful. Second of all, what I am assuming you’re feeling is slightly ashamed. I assume as much because many other girls who are raped feel the same way. Now, as someone above me said, how about writing her a letter, that sounds like a great recommendation. Or, perhaps, do ti over e-mail or IM. I know it sounds bad, but it can be so much easier to tell someone something you’re having a hard time telling them when it is through writing instead of conversation. Keep in mind that she only adores you, and wants to help you, remember this when she reacts

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why haven't you already told her? are you afraid that she cant be trusted with this information, and she’ll tell others? if this is the reason, then i wouldn't say anything. if its just because of the trauma, then just tell her what happened. you never know, maybe something similar happened to her, too. they state that one out of four females gets sexually molested sometime in their lives.

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Maybe you should write her a letter and give it to her. Give it to her in person so you know that she'll get it and no one else will read it. Maybe give it to her and then state you need to go to the water closet and so she'll read it while you’re in the water closet.

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well if shes THE most bestest friend youv ever had then you should tell her!!!Cause before at a party this boy almost raped me!!!(in a non-sexual way) and at a disco someone pulled up my skirt and i told my ideal friend and she didnt laugh instead she was there for me whenever i need her!!!

Hope this helps!!!!!

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Have you told anyone yet? You should notify the police and tell them, as well as your parents.

You should just tell her in private, and state, “He took my virginity, against my will…” and don't be afraid to cry.

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Well i know your scared to tell her. But if she is your true friend she won't tell anyone. And she’ll support you and stuff so its ok.

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instead of telling your friend first, tell your mom and THEN tell your friend because you need to let someone closer to you know, like your family.

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Well your ideal bet is to just tell her…. you need someone to speak to…. hell I sat on that secret for YEARS and I thought it was going to est me alive.

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i would just tell her straight out, alone somewhere, maybe if your over her home or shes over yours.