Jul
im on my sisters yahoo name and im 13. i dont have my period and my younger sister does. its kind of weird and not fair? shes growing up faster then me? shes 12 btw
tomorrow i have my 13 yr appointment and the dr knows she has it. hes gonna ask my and im gonna state know? its kind of embarrasing and idk what to do. help?
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First of all you should not be concerned about the fact that your sister has her period before you.
Second, you should ALWAYS, ALWAYS speak freely with your Dr. You should always answer questions honestly. If you fail to tell your Dr information or you lie about information your Dr can not properly treat you. You may feel humiliated if this is your first time seeing your Dr that's normal, but tell him this directly and then do the ideal you can to open up and talk honestly. Your health is important and your Dr can not guess what's going on, they can only go by what you tell them.
Don't forget they are only human, they get in and out of bed just like you do, get dressed just like you do… there's no reason to feel ashamed or humiliated. To be honest some Dr's get embarrassed as well!
Relax. Be honest.
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I know how you feel I'm older then all my friends and they all got their period before me. Yeah I know that if you haven't gotten your period yet and other girls around have you just wish so much to have your period because you feel kind of left out of the loop. But trust me on this yeah for like your first 2 periods you will feel all happy and just tickled pink that you got your period but after a while getting you period gets old and more like a chore then a pleasure.
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Believe me and the entire race of womankind when I state this: The longer you go without getting it the happier you'll be. You'll have almost half your life to deal with it so dont wish it upon yourself. She'll never be older than you so don't worry about her “growing up” faster. You'll do most everything else first.
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Dont worry about that at all…your time will come very very soon..I had a friend that was very sad about it because all of her friends got their period when they were 11 or 12…yet she was 16 and still did not have a period…and she got it when she was 16 in a half nearly 17. Trust me it takes time so dont be upset over it , you'll get it before you know it :]
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It's normal. I know someone who did not start until they was 16. It all how your hormones work. Some people bodies mature faster than others. Don't be humiliated. I assure you she has heard far more “embarrassing” questions that what you have to ask.
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yes she's growing faster than you but dont worry you’ll get it too! you cant do anything about it just tell the doctor you dont have your period yet. my cousin got her period at 12 and i got mines at 10. she was jealous but now she has it and were both happy.
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its not. some people just get their periods at different times why would you feel embarrassed? that's so dumb. rest and be chill. just be happy that you don't have it because its going to be hell when you get it don't rush it
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When you get your period you will not be jealous of your sister anymore. Enjoy the time you’ve without having to worry about it, and just so you know, many girls don't get their periods until 17!
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haha, dont be enbarrased, and I gaurantee you your doctor will not even bat an eye at this. It won’t occor to him that you dont have it and she does. Just state, “no I dont have it, Thank GOD” and hope you get another year free!
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Sweetheart don't be silly, A there is not any need to be humiliated with your doctor they know far more about periods and puberty than most women and secondly they also that girls and boys mature at different rates, so do not worry
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It's totally fine that you don't have it! i know people who didnt get their period till they were 16 and it's absolutely normal. It's nothing to look forward to anyway! Don't stress =)
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lol good for you. she has to suffer longer then you
dont be humiliated. your lucky!
and shes not growing up faster, her body is just maturing earlier than yours is.
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You're okay. Late blooming is good because you'll long young and sexy when you're old
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dont be humiliated.
im a late bloomer too.
whisper it in the doc.s ear
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wtf are u talking about ur sis