Feb
I seriously don’t know what's wrong with me! so, i've been ideal friends with this girl for so long! (I have other friends aswell but she's just amazing, because she's just like me her personality. everything) anyway so me and her used to go out on weekends, and have a great time, drinking, flirting, laughing and just plain having fun. now she got a boyfriend last month (they've been together for 5 weeks) anyway and this guy i just don't know, i hate his guts. she had lots of boyfriends before when we were friends and i always got along well with them. although this guy is really nice too. i just can't stomach him. anyway now she told me that NOTHING between us changed, she is still going to hang out with me like before, and all that. and i did tell her that i didnt like her being with this guy and she told me that if he’s going to tell her not to talk to her friends she would dump him. anyway the PROBLEM IS.
i know she's a great friend and she wouldn't pick him over me but sometimes i wonder.. and one second im fine with it all, the next im hating the whole situation. what is wrong with me? i usually never get jealous of things like these but now i don't know what is wrong with my mind. it's like I accept the fact that she has a bf etc but my mind doesn't and it keeps wondering on it's own about negative toughts
WHAT SHOULD I DO? THIS IS DRIVING ME INSANE.
Answer:
It's simply a matter of things wont be exactly as they were before when u went out partying etc, even if she does make the effort to see u, and u liked the way things were. But in time you’ll get used to it hopefully.. lifes full of scary changes and loosing time with a friend is bound to make u feel insecure, and also the flirting etc will subside on her part.. give yourself time, take some time to see other friends and make sure u and this girl stay close because when the initial excitement of love for her passes, and she settles a bit more with this guy, she'll want to spend more time with u. Or she may become single again. But we all get jealous, dw
Good luck with it all, and make sure u take ur mind off the situation with some relaxing and doing other stuff u enjoy xxAnswer:
Yes you do know whats wrong with you..Find out what the He*L bugs you and go from there
Answer:
Just confront her about it….