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But I don't mean a sexual one… I mean one where you literally fantasize about getting raped in the street. :/
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I would be more than happy to rape you. Here's my number (562) 676-8011
seriously, please call me. Nobody ever calls me.
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Most people who fantasize about real rape don't want real rape, but they might want to role-play it. Bringing a fantasy into real life often requires a compromise between the fantasy and the act. I’ve done this, and really enjoyed it. And when you say dominating/controlling men do you mean sexually or in all aspects of life? I’m going to address it as though you mean sexual domination.
I disagree with those who say there is only one reason why some women like this. I think there can be many different reasons: it is true that a person who was molested or raped can develop these fantasies (but I disagree that they are the majority); pain and sexual pleasure are interpreted in a very similar way by our brains, in fact pain is the closest thing to sexual arousal, and both can cause adrenaline rushes; when you don't have to do anything but lie there and 'take it' it allows you to totally concentrate on the sensations without having to worry about whether you’re entertaining your partner (you know they are getting pleased by dominating you); but I think the main reason is that the part of the brain that rules our sex drive is primal and instinctual and unencumbered by the restraints of civilization and 'rules', so some people go into that animalistic desire for strength and domination.
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Its the struggle that causes the fantasy excitement. Many people has become turned on by watching men and women wrestling or when women scream for help as they struggle. The battle increases excitement, . It is why we watch boxing..the battle is a turn on more many. Of course fantasy rape is designed by the mind where all the details you can control..the whole scene is your movie
In real life it is not exciting, you may be punched or have teeth knocked out, face beaten in and puffy. Sexual organs damaged from no lubrication
and some dirty , hideous guy with a STD..
Keep it a fantasy you create in the mind..perfect scene..people..etc. Really life rape can damage you for life
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Cheweys mother has a good answer on the fantasy part.
The attraction probably has something to do with the way you were raised or your dad's personality.
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Maybe because you think sex is prohibited and you don't want the act itself to be your fault. You want it to be out of your control. IMHO