Sep
im in 12th grade and i think this one guy might be stalking me or actually i am not sure so can someone help me?
this has been going on a long time now, at least a year and i am getting kind of annoyed.
i have 2 classes with this guy and i notice he always stares and glances at me for example he gets up a lot in class and always walks past my table and he sits on the other side of the room NOT facing me but when he sits down he totally turns around and glances my direction real quick. (there are over 35 others in the class but he always looks my direction)
he bumped into my back once when everyone was standing up in class and he kept walking and i wasn't even in his way. when i am stapling my paper and he is behind me he absolutely blocks my path and i totally bumped into the girl next to me.
last year (not so much this year) he would deeply gaze at me from afar and watch me have conversations with people.
i was driving and he was standing in the parking lot. i turned the corner and i saw him standing nearly in the middle of the one-lane road to the exit of the lot (i know he knows what car i drive because he stared at me over 30 seconds straight once when i was stuck in traffic in the lot) i had to completely swerve my car out of the way of him and he didn’t even move when i did this he just kept standing there then i was stuck in traffic and i saw in the rear view mirror him walking in the direction of my vehicle and i just drove off.
i ALWAYS ignore the stares. i kind of like him but we’ve never talked and he never has approached me but this is kind of creeping me out to be honest. what should i do? does he like me or is he obsessed? what the heck does this mean?
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He may have the hots for you and wants you to ask him out. He might not be talking to you cause he doesn't want to screw things up with you. He might be fantasizing about you. Ask him out! If he for some dumb reason says no then don't worry about it.
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Stay away from him. He could have a mental disorder or something wrong with him you know nothing about. You need to go to your Principal as soon as possible.
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Why dont you ask him what’s going on?
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I don't believe that you’re being stalked. If you were, he would follow you places (everywhere), call you at all hours, etc. I think he’s just a confused teenager. He probably likes you, but doesn't have the guts to approach you. If you want to know, ask him. If you are not comfortable with this approach or he really creeps you out, ask a teacher or guidance counselor. That's what they’re for. Hope all works out well for you. If things get worse or he makes “creepy” contact with you, speak to your parents, instructors or your local Police. Good Luck and God Bless.
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that walking towards you automobile part was FUXING creepy but… you like your stalker? well maybe he likes you, i bet if you talked to him and get to know the guy youll find out if hes some guy who will go psycho on ur a$$ 10 years later or he wanted to get your attention dramatically because you ignore him maybe