Jul
okay.. been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 yrs.. known him for 3 y ears as friends..
i give my boyfriend oral probably each day.. atleast 5 days out of the week when i see him.. but i care about it and love it bc i love him.. however.. im starting to not comprehend why he gets soft the minute i stop the oral sex.. lets say bc the phone might had rung (important call) u never know.. or atleast when he wants me to take my bra off..or somethin.. so i take off my clothes and it just seems like hes goin soft.. then when i come back.. hes all hard again lol
is he like gettin turned off when i stop? cuz im finding this offensive..or is it that hes so horny he hates being disturbed..!? btw, i dont see how he could get turned off.. im 22.. i have a body wit no children.. and if there was anybody with a physical problem.. its him with that beer gut belly.. but i still love him tho…
haha.. wut is ur input? helpp!
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i wouldnt state he`s turned off at all..if u stop in the middle of sex its normal if the guy doesnt stay as hard as he’s when he`s having sex…if he couldnt get hard then id say he`s turned off
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Why is it offensive? He goes soft, or semi-soft because there’s a lack of stimulation for the periods you’re not “servicing” him, and quite frankly, you stopping to answer the phone can be rather distracting and non-conducive to “the heat of the moment”!
If he regains his erection when you return to the activity at hand, then whats the problem?
I think you are reading TOO much into this and you may be looking for a problem where none really exists!
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sweet tang
its ok , you see its like this we—it—the thang needs attention and when you stop it—-the dang thang— stops as well and believe you me we dont like it much neither but it happens to the ideal of us. just enjoy and be trustworthy.
kevin
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I don't see how it's offensive. It's good that he gets hard when you're around. But I don't know why he would get flacid when you stop. I guess it's because you interrupt him.
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It's very natural … You should not get upset at this. That would be like hime getting upset about you having your period. It's perfectly normal and a natural occurrence.
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dont worry its not u that happens 2 me all the time even sometimes when im masturbating
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That happened 2 me once or twice….its because it feels so great and when were interupted its lik a turn off…..its not because of u tho so don't take it personal
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you gotta keep the attention on “it” and keep the moment going!
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its a natural male reaction
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maybe he just doesn't like being interrupted like u said ask him