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My best friend and I have been in love for a long time and she wants to lose her virginity to me.. Thing is that I’ve aids and the reason she wants to so badly now is because we aren't sure how much time I have left. I don't really know what I should do here. I just want what's best for her. Should I not do it at all or is there ways to make sure she’s very protected?
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You’ve do what you think is right, not what she wants. You’re the one that has the disease and should have the final say. Why is it sooo important that she sleep with you as opposed to enjoying your company? Love is not sex and vice versa. If you plan on doing this, use a condom (not Lambskin as it does not protect against H.I.V.) and do NOT *** inside her. That should prevent it as ideal as possible since your fluids will be in the condom and out of her body when you peak.
LAST NOTE: She can get H.I.V. from oral sex on you, so make sure you use a condom for that and don’t french kiss her if you or her have bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Your blood from your bleeding gums could pass into an open sore or into her bleeding gums. SO BE XTRA SAFE.
And honestly, with all this stress, who would want to have sex w/ their ideal friend when you’re obviously worried? I don't see how you are going to rest in the middle of sex. But good luck and ask your physician for his advice as well.
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wear like layers of condoms(like 3-5) and they also make condoms for girls. that should be protected enough. if your still worried, put more layers of condoms on. this is wut a guy i kno did. his girlfriend wore a condom for women and he wore 4 condoms(he has STD's). and to the person below me, i kno that, its just if you wear more condoms there’s less of a chance of all of them breaking, maybe only the first one or two.
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Okay lets just say this isn't a joking matter…if you are joking, you are a terrible person!
But if you’re serious, I suggest you go and ask a physician. You both should probably bathe really well before you both have sex, and you MUST wear a condom! Also I believe there’s a type of lubricant out there that can help with protection…just to be safer than sorry.
Please consult a physician…they’ve superior answers than anyone on here can give.
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I’m very sorry to hear about your situation. Don't have sex with her. I'm sure she does not want to get sick. Just enjoy your times together(without sex) you can still have a relationship. just don't put her at risk. if you really love her, you'll feel terrible if she got sick
good luck with everything! stay strong!Answer:
im soo sorry to hear about that,
the best thing to do is to go to a physician.
Your girlfriend shouldnt be risking her life like that,
if she did really love you, then she would comprehend what you are going through, and wouldnt be risking her health.
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In some says, you can be put in jail if you give her aids.
If you care for her, don't have sex with her. Simple.
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That's really risky. Even with a condom you can still pass it on to her. Talk to a doctor first.
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Really, you should not do it at all. But, if you’re going to be sure to use a condom properly.
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If you care about her you wouldn't have sexual intercourse..
It's too risky, and there's a chance she might get AIDS.
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you would have to date first
if your not bf/gf why would you have sex
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It's obvious you care very much about this friend of yours or you wouldn't be asking this question. “Protected” sex is never a 100 percent sure thing, but there are myriad ways to to make it safer. Use a condom for sure, but not 2 (you laugh but search 2 condoms and see how many people actually believe that 2 condoms are safer than 1 lol!) Condoms wouldn't be able to say that they are 99+ percent effective against HIV if they weren’t. But you ARE taking a chance. You and she have to decide if a .01 percent risk of her contracting HIV is worth sharing the intimacy. If you DO decide to have sex with her, don't just assume you know how to use a condom either. Read the directions and put it on and take it off right. Condoms are only effective if used properly. You're obviously mature and sincere, and in light of your medical condition you should feel comfortable talking to your physician about the risks and safety solutions they might be able to offer other than condoms as well. Additionally, remember that intercourse is not the only form of lovemaking and that HIV is transmitted via the blood. Can you be intimate without taking the danger and still both be satisfied?
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use a condom ….the person above u cant pass aids through a condom only if it breaks….use a trjoin and if she want to give you sex than (may sound selfish) but take it as long as u are safe. use lubercation it makes the condom have a way less to almost impossible chance to break, sorry to hear u dont have long left enjoy life as much as you can.
haveing more than one puts stress on the rest makeing them break more often only use one
and ppl no need to name call i can go to your death beds and call you monsters!!!!!
and its great to have someone who adores you that much!! if she knows the risk and still wants to go through with it and you want to than do so.
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